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INTRODUCTION
Life is a process,
- First you plant the seed
- Then you take care of it, watering, fertilising
- Wait, and watch it grow
- Then you will enjoy the fruits
P.S. If you want to enjoy Durian, don't plant
Rambutan!
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It's a
Process
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Before Marriage |
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Being Married |
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Producing Children |
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Relationship
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1. Introduction |
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2. Acquaintance |
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3. Relationship |
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4. Intimacy |
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It's a Process |
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LIFE CYCLE : |
[PMC - Pre-Marital Course] |
[TMC The Marriage Course] |
[Parenting] |
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1.Growing Up > |
2.Marriage > |
3. Have Children |
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Guy (100% male)
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Girl (100% Female) |
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Guy meets Girl, falls in LOVE,
Courtship -> Marriage |
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Pro-Create (Adam and Eve)
Being Parents
is not Adam and Adam nor Eve and Eve.
Get the math
right!
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1. Growing
Up |
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Let's us work with you in Preparing
for Life-Long Companionship...
Preparing for
Wedding
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Be prepared for
staying together. Washing the dishes, making
coffee, etc. Mundane, yes, the mystery just
waiting to be discovered. Oh yes, meeting
emotional needs too. You won't be along soon...
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2. Marriage |
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This is where the Rubber Meets The
Road...are you truly in love with your spouse?
Honey 'mood' - For
How Long?
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If you are not as
madly in love as before, TMC (Transforming
Marriages) can help to
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Transforming
Marriages...into rekindling the Married
Relationship. Try us! |
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3.
Have Children |
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We are ready for you,
even before your babies grow up and start having
babies of their own...
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0 - 5 Years |
Nursery => Kindergarten |
Dependence |
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6 - 12 Years |
Primary |
Inter-dependence |
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13 - 19 Years |
Secondary => Pre-U / Poly |
Independence |
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Points to note :
- all children are unique and different
- don't treat your 15 years old like a 5 years old - they have grown up!
- if you have missed the 0 - 5 years, there is still Hope...
- participate in the 6 - 12, or 13 - 19; many parents gain much doing
them!
NOTE 1:
Children are not your nightmares,
neither is your spouse! Get a life!
They are GIFTs for marriages.
NOTE 2:
The
nightmare may be you!
Examine yourself - get a life! |
..while you are
enjoying Parenthood, you can gain with
TMC@COOS
or equivalent..
your SPOUSE, don't forget the
person you were madly in love with before marriage!
- Remember! The most important person in your life is your spouse! Before
the children, your Spouse is! Of course, before the
creation of your Spouse and Heaven and
Earth, He is!
- Love them (the Spouse) the way you love them during courtship...
- Note : Their shape may change, but our spouse is still the same
person, Body, Soul, Spirit.
- Note : You knew that 15 years after marriage, something in our
spouse will change! Maybe Wiser, More elegant, Know all
your good habits as well as bad ones...
Children came later because of you and your spouse,
your priority is in Staying Wonderfully Married,
while you raise your kids into adulthood! |
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