I wonder what would Father or Mother would say if this was the passing of a child ... or a best friend, beloved leader of our country or ...

RELATIONSHIP, the epitome of Trust
or
TRUST, the epitome of Relationship

Relationship - either you have it or you don't have it. True / False?

If you are not a leopard, then the above is False.

If you are a leopard, or any other being other than Human Beings, you are changeless, you are FATED to hide your food in the trees. Yes, you are right! Leopard cannot change spots!

Yes, you are right too! We cannot change spots on ourselves (cos we do not have them!!)

We, created in the image of God and His likeness, we keep our food in the fridge, invented by human beings.

The leopards still keep their left-overs in the tree ... they had been doing that a long time ago when Adam and Eve were in the garden, when Neil Armstrong walked on the moon, and yesterday when we were drinking kopi-O after Sunday church service!

For us, when Adam and Eve needed to cloth themselves, they use fig leaves (possible with exposed backsides) and walked barefooted, and I wore blue denim jeans with leather shoes to church.

MAN CHANGE! Every day is a new beginning.

If you are able to speak and utter words, you can tell yourself, you can change.

Even if you live in caves in modern society, you still can change. Otherwise, I suspect that you think you were evolved from creatures that used to live in trees, going around naked (but did not understand what shame is), and wear a long tail (not on the head but at your rear-end).

Now how did I end up telling this story about Leopard and Spots!
 

I pondered, and then I said "No!"

FATE is for animals!

If we don't love someone else (spouse, parents, children, friends, colleagues ... ), we can at least try to love them like what Jesus teaches us to do!

Learn to look at positive things!

Learn to be in their shoes - what is causing them to get upset with them!

Remember - God still loves them (your spouse, your parents, children, friends, colleagues ... )! If you are not willing to try - you are not loving those that God loves! You are against the very teachings of God! If God is wearing Red T-shirts, don't go wearing Yellow T-shirts! Yellow will be against Red, and Red will be against Yellow!

Relationship and Trust is for every one of us. Husband and wife, parents and children, among friends, colleagues. If you think relationship is you and God only, you are quite Dead Wrong!

Start thinking, and start doing! Stop that stinking thinking and do right!

The kingdom of God is within you!

Don't be the Peter who conversed with Jesus after resurrection and Jesus asked him 3 times if he loves Jesus; and still did not get it and turned to focus on John, and Jesus still has the patience to remind Peter - "What's it to you?"

MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS, and just be right with God!

Yes, you are given the brain (mind) that can analyse when Change is necessary!