It's all about relating to one another ... knows what your partner likes / dislikes!
Ecclesiastes 7 NASB
21  Also, do not take seriously all words which are spoken, so that you will not hear your servant cursing you. 
22  For you also have realized that you likewise have many times cursed others.

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COMMUNICATION : TALK LESS, LISTEN MORE
CRITICISM CONTEMPT DEFENSIVENESS STONEWALLING
Criticizing our partner is different than offering a critique or having a complaint. The latter two are about specific issues, whereas the former attacks our partner at the core. In effect, we are dismantling his or her whole being when we criticize. When we communicate from this state, we are being mean, treating others with disrespect by using sarcasm, ridicule, name-calling, and/or body language such as eye-rolling. The partner feels despised and worthless. Contempt is toxic and cannot be replaced with anything. It must be eliminated. This is an easy one to fall into. We feel accused of something and think that, if we tell our partner our excuse for doing what we did, he or she will back off. But the excuse just tells our partner that we haven't considered anything he or she has said. Basically, by defending ourselves we are ignoring our partner. When we stonewall, we avoid conflict either because we are unconscious of our own feelings or because we are afraid. Rather than confronting the issues (usually they tend to accumulate) with our partner, we make evasive maneuvers such as tuning out, turning away, being busy or engaging in obsessive behaviors. We simply stop engaging in the business of relating to another person.
You always ...
You never ...
You are the type of person who ...
Why are you so ...		 Fat ...  Stupid ...  
Ugly ... Lazy ...
Rolling your eyes, curling your upper lips ...		 It's not my fault ... 
I didn't ...
This is not true, you're the one ...
It's not fair ...		 Stony silence ...
Changing the subject ...
Walking away ...
Monosyllabic mutterings

AVOID all the above to maintain 'Great Conversation'
2 Corinthians 5
The Ministry of Reconciliation
18  All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: 
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